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Elaine Sage's avatar

You have incredible insight and expertise. Our culture does a disservice to women regarding our outer appearance. The messages play in our head’s over and over again. Throw in aging and we spin out. Aging is not easy but it is wonderful to wake up to another beautiful day.

I like your approach, no judgement plus suggestions.

Thank you😊

Dr. Lucy McBride's avatar

Thanks a whole lot!

Trisha's avatar

This is very well written, especially from a young person. I have always enjoyed your articles but after reading this I am convinced again you are a brilliant person and thanks for sharing that brilliance. I am 72 and I was not prepared for the sadness that keeps trying to tackle me and lay me out flat. The loneliness that is all around. Thanks for the empowering suggestions don't give up...

Gerridoc's avatar

Thank you for posting this information!

Jane Owens's avatar

Wonderful tips on accepting and working with my aging. It’s sometimes a scary place to be. I appreciate your insights and support.

I love your writing style!

CynthiaWatson1's avatar

Thank you so! I esp appreciate the calculator link you sent. As a vegetarian, this helps me keep some things in mind.

Dr. Lucy McBride's avatar

Yes it can be difficult to get enough protein if vegetarian

Carole Johnson's avatar

Love this. Very helpful. I have been an athlete all my life. Love exercise, running, yoga. And now I find myself in fear a lot. Holding back and unsure whether I should continue running after a knee replacement 10 months ago. Surgeon says it would be fine, but I worry about the other knee--and falling. (which I've not done) Maybe a therapist would be your recommendation. To look at the fear. Thank you so much.

Dr. Lucy McBride's avatar

Great query and thoughts. It’s normal to inhabit the world of “what ifs” after going through a surgery like that, it’s really a question of 1) to what degree is ruminating about the future consuming excess brain space and 2) what are you doing about it? One way to quiet the ruminations is to exercise, ie., to test drive your knee - ie. trusting your doctor and trusting your body … then listening to its feedback :)

Peak Power's avatar

Excellent! Thanks so much -

Peggy Hubble's avatar

Thank you!

Valerie Monroe's avatar

Excellent advice, thank you! And here's what else can help us feel happier and more confident as we age: https://valeriemonroe.substack.com/p/how-to-the-only-facial-exercise-worth?utm_source=publication-search

patricia townsend's avatar

Best column ever! Advice I try to follow every day- always wondering if it was really helping…I am convinced, once again! Thank you!!!!

Suzette Ciancio's avatar

Thank you so much for this newsletter, it’s more than helpful!

Paula Donsky's avatar

Thank you ! Great tips ~ always appreciate your wisdom!

Debbie Weil's avatar

Dr. Lucy, as always, you nail it! Your reminders are reminding me to reach out for some mental health help following the death of my 93yo dad a few months ago. I’ve written about dealing with complicated feelings on my Substack (which is helpful!), but have mostly kept my “struggles” under wraps on my day-to-day life.

Dr. Lucy McBride's avatar

Glad to have given you a push!

Anne-Marie Finnell's avatar

Super helpful, relevant, relatable, and uplifting!!!

Melissa Scala's avatar

AWESOME tips here! I am surely prioritizing all - especially building muscle and getting in more protein.

maureen's avatar

Love the encouragement, but the protein recommendation is completely OFF. PLEASE research and UP that intake!