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so true. I appreciate this advice as a doctor and a human. The shame of our "mistakes" or "poor" decisions is so crippling. Personally, it is my unawareness of how much stress leads to my disassociation and how that disassociation (which was meant to protect me) unconsciously leads to unhealthy personal choices. Once we find that link, it becomes so much easier to manage and understand but all of it has to be approached with self compassion and not shame! It is radical since society teaches us to shame ourselves so well.

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100% - we all do it; the question is how are you connecting the dots btw your thoughts, feelings and behaviors *before* you make a plan to "be better" :)

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Jan 8Liked by Dr. Lucy McBride

Great advice! We should all be so lucky to have a physician that thinks like you.

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Awww. thank you

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Jan 8Liked by Dr. Lucy McBride

My New Year’s resolution is to do something each day that my future self will thank me for!

I am going to journal it. Next New Year’s eve, re-read it. Jan

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nice!!!

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Jan 8Liked by Dr. Lucy McBride

“Asking for help is a sign of strength.” Words to remember! Thank you for the good and practical advice! I’ve been trying the 4-7-8 techniques just before and after I get into bed. It really helps!

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Love it! I have been trying to do it, too. It REALLY works!

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Jan 8Liked by Dr. Lucy McBride

Good advice, practical!

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Jan 8Liked by Dr. Lucy McBride

👍

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Thank you for the 4 tips!

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This is a reassuring story and a deep well of hope. Very helpful advice about how to rethink our coping strategies and get support. Thank you Dr. Lucy

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